Best mates gone all soft on a guy and excluding me from their dates.?

My best mate and i, we had a pact, an unsaid one, but a pact none same. We are both 41yrs old and have lived together this past 17yrs. Me and her, our rule, was guys we f..k them and dump them coz each night we hit the strips and found a man to lay with to satisfy our needs but the rule was he leaves in a few hours and he dont share our lives no more. We both tell men we are 32, we dress sexy and would give 20yrs old a run for their money. We both have bad backs so coudl never work , so we've got by on family help and welfare payments. We bothh have plenty time to look good and spend ages doing home tans and hair dyes. Each evening this past 17yrs, we have hit the strips at tea time and by 6pm, we would have 3 drinks bought for us by lusty men in the local smokey joints. However, my mate shes now gone all soft on a guy she bedded. I dont like him. He holds us back and doesnt want us to party and excludes me from their dates. I'm real put out, my pal and i, we are soul mates and i'm so dissed shes letting a guy come between us. I've got a nasty rash on my pie and as hes a doctor i asked him to go look at it. He got real uppidy and suggest i fork out and go to a surgery even though hes boning my pal. WTF?Best mates gone all soft on a guy and excluding me from their dates.?
I dont even know how to begin to answer this, but doing to a strip and picking a guy up isn't right. Maybe your friend likes him, so what?